Shinigamigurl, 51

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Huntington Park, CA, USA

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Spending time in China but I`ll always be a Cali girl at heart

Looking for a semi serious partner I'm returning to the US after spending the last 11 years in China and I'm looking for a partner that isn't a one night stand.

I have a child and I've returned to take care of my aging grandmother so I'm not going to be going to parties or hanging out for long periods of time, but I'd like to find someone who I can spend my precious "alone" with.

I'm a fairly serious person and though I might act tough but I hate getting hurt...and I seem to get hurt a lot. So it will take a little while to warm up to you- but take it as a test, if you're not willing to invest a little time getting to know me and letting me get to know you then you're probably not for me. But for those who do crack my shell, I can assure you that you'll never feel neglected.

I'm curvy but being in China has hurt my body image some- they can be rude about it. I'm looking for a guy who likes my looks and my age. I'm older but I have always gone out with younger guys...much younger.

To be honest I haven't ever really 'dated' before...so I"m not sure what type I am. But I do like anything from dancing at a club to a quiet walk chatting. It's been years since I really spent any time with anyone who spoke English enough to carry on a decent conversation though.

I am a very physical- touchy feely person and I'd like to find a partner who also does...it's important.

About Me

Gender Female

Orientation Straight

Height 5'04"

Weight 200 lbs

Hobbies & Interests computers, cosplay, dancing, fleamarkets, internet, killing zombies, manga, movies, music, reading, travel, video games, writing

Body Type a few extra pounds, large, overweight, pleasantly plump, voluptuous

Movies action, animation, comedy, fantasy, indie, steamy, romantic comedy, sci-fi

Orientation asexual, straight

Eye Color black, brown

Hair Color a little gray, black, dark brown, auburn

Ethnicity Caucasian, Hispanic / Latino, Mixed Race, Native American

Relationship separated, single

Have Kids yes, yes - single parent home

Education Level Bachelor's Degree, college grad

Profession Education / Academic Research, Other

Income level that's private

Do you smoke? cigarettes, cigars, daily, like a chimney, socially, chain smoker

Do you drink? no, socially, teetotaller

I currently live family and friends visit often, on a pirate ship, with kids, with roommate(s)

Socially, I am a couch potato, anti-social, better in small groups, home body, loner, shy at first, but warm up quickly, a total freak

Political Views not interested in politics

Food Related BRAINS!!!, Carnivore, Chinese, Diet Phobic, Italian, Japanese, Mexican, Omnivore, Raw Food, Soul Food, Sushi, Thai

Personality artistic, clown, dominatrix, fun loving, geek, intellectual, introvert, liberal, loner, lover, nerd, pirate, romantic, total slacker

Individuality artist, cougar, piercings, pirate at heart, tattoos, vampire, emo

Religious Views Not Religious, but Spiritual

I'm looking for conversation, dating, fun, mr. right, mr. right now, penpal, relationship, romance, something interesting, soulmate, the yin to my yang

My Sign i was born in november, scorpio : oct. 23-nov. 21

Military Service army, veteran

Pets No pets currently (but like them), Small Furry Creature

Gender Female, Not Sure

Music Indie, Industrial, Jazz-Fusion, Post Rock, Progressive Rock, Punk, Rock, Techno, Trance, World, Alternative Rock, Celtic, Dance, Folk, Hard Rock, Hardcore

Hair Style curly, ponytail

Fitness & Sports swimming

Health Related eastern medicine

Languages Chinese, English, Mandarin, The Language of Love

Looking for

Hobbies & Interests baking, comic books, computers, cosplay, dancing, fishing, fleamarkets, horseback riding, internet, killing zombies, manga, movies, music, naturism, painting, photography, pole dancing, puzzles and brain teasers, reading, robotics, sports, television, travel, video games, weather, writing

Their Body Type athletic, average, bodybuilder, fit, skinny, slender, slim, supermodel

Movies action, comedy, drama, indie, nothing but porn, romance, romantic comedy, sci-fi

Orientation asexual, bisexual, straight

Eye Color black, blue, brown, glass, gray, green, hazel

Their Ethnicity Asian, Caucasian, Hispanic / Latino, Native American, Pacific Islander, Vulcan

Relationship divorced, separated, single, single - never married, widowed

Do they smoke? daily, electronic cigarettes, for medicinal purposes, hookah, like a chimney, no - open to dating smokers though, only when I drink, pipe, socially, 420, ceremonial smoking, chain smoker, cigarettes, cigars, clove cigarettes

Do they drink? no, socially, wine

They currently live alone, family and friends visit often, in a van down by the river, on a pirate ship, there is a party every night, with pets, with roommate(s)

Socially, they are a couch potato, anti-social, better in small groups, class clown, comic relief, home body, loner, shy at first, but warm up quickly, side kick

Food Related Carnivore

Personality burner (burning man participant), clown, coffeeholic, dominatrix, frugal, fun loving, geek, intellectual, introvert, loner, lover, nerd, pirate, punk, romantic, thrifty, total slacker

Individuality cougar lover, magician, ninja, piercings, pirate at heart, psychic, superhero, superhero sidekick, tattoos, vampire, werewolf

They are looking for conversation, dating, friends - with benefits, friends only, miss right, miss right now, mr. right, mr. right now, penpal, relationship, romance, something REALLY hot, soulmate, the yin to my yang

Their Sign cancer : june 21-july 22, capricorn : dec. 22-jan. 19, pisces : feb. 19-march 20, scorpio : oct. 23-nov. 21, taurus : april 20-may 20, virgo : aug. 23-sept. 22

Pets Small Furry Creature

Gender Male

Music Techno, Trance, World, Alternative Rock, Celtic, Dance, Folk, Funk, Hard Rock, Hardcore, Heavy Metal, Indie, Industrial, Jazz, Jazz-Fusion, Metal, Post Rock, Progressive Rock, Punk, Reggae, Relaxation and Meditation, Rock, Screamo, Ska

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