Mellowlonghair, 46

Looking for a woman to help me become a better man I am extremely introverted and have always had a hard time connecting with girls and then women my own age. It sometimes seems like I am outshone by the all of the loud and attention seeking personalities competing for younger women. On the other hand, my quiet calmness seems to be less abhorrent to older women. While I haven't ruled true love out as a possibility, I am looking for a mentor more than a lifelong partner. I want to "break out of my shell" and take a more active role in the world, but will likely need a patient woman to help me get started.